48-year-old Kampala Slay Queen Charlotte Komugisha Refuses 100m And a Mansion On Kampala hill

Aged 48-years, Charlotte Komugisha, a tik tok queen in Kampala has had her cohabitation relationship with Jim with whom she has three children (aged 19, 14 & 12 years) irretrievably become broken. One of her close friends says that the two lived together since 2007 in Kabowa from where they later relocated to Makindye Kizungu zone in Lukuli.

The cohabitation boyfriend is kind-hearted and highly educated, which is why he holds a big government job at one of the MDAs. She is a beautiful Munyankole from Ntungamo and friends say she is a fun-loving lady.

During their cohabitation, which ran from 2006 to July 2018, they produced three children before irreconcilable differences relating to alleged infidelity, dishonesty, exploitation, abusive conduct, manipulation and cruelty cropped up.

One of her best frirnds says that counter accusations of infidelity persisted until 2018 when Charlotte confessed seeing some other man who later demanded a refund of his 5m or else he kidnaps and harms the couple’s youngest child. The man stormed their home in Makindye, got hold of the child and recorded a video which he sent to the mother making it clear the child’s head was going to be chopped off if his 5m wasn’t refunded.

Family members became very scared because this was the period when Nagirinya was abducted/killed and later on Susan Magara. One of her best friends who spoke on condition of anonymity says that money had to be mobilized to soothe the anger of the self-professed kidnapper.

For eight years, Charlotte lived at a relative’s place in Entebbe until August last year when she forcefully and violently came back making it clear she had to live in the boyfriend’s mansion whether he liked it or not. The children pleaded with him to forgive and allow their mum back on grounds that she had changed. She also assured their mutual fruends and relatives that she would respect him and behave like any other decent female in a home.

The boyfriend reluctantly allowed for the sake of the children. But one of her close friends says that Charlotte didn’t keep her word and instead caused even more chaos than she used to do before leaving the home in 2018. She demanded that the maid and shamba boy who she found helping him to run the home, leave immediately and be replaced by those recruited by her.

The close friend adds that there were also service providers like Sam for IT support services and Yokana who used to help with dogs and chicken feeds. She harassed these ones demanding they should stop coming around. She vowed to bring her own people. She said there was no need for a maid and shamba boy since she was back and ready to do all the work herself. She never kept her word on this, according to thr close friend who preferred not to be quoted.

Friends say that all she would do was sleep, look for where to go to visit gossiping friends, be on phone and record insultive videos for posting on tik tok where she recruited a bevy of female friends to keep attacking and character-assassinating the cohabitation boyfriend. This was after he refused to be intimate with her, and insisted on sleeping in a separate room, making it clear he didn’t feel safe having sex with her again.

The boyfriend is a busy government official and many times returns home late. Friends say that she would protest this by refusing to open the gate for him and yet the shamba boy who used to open for him had been frustrated by Charlotte.

Neighors and LC1 officials say that she was also abusive and would declare how he is nothing on top of her voice every now and then-in the hearing of all neighbors. Feeling worthless and totally ashamed, the boyfriend started avoiding to attend village meetings where he used to be an active participant before Charlotte forcefully came back to the home.

She would also threaten harm to him besides threatening to file for divorce, even when technically there is no marriage between them which can be subject to divorce proceedings.

It’s simply cohabitation and every lawyer who tells her this fact, gets dropped and replaced. This is why she has been changing lawyers severally since the divorce case was first filed last September. Over the years, he spent money on her including seeing her though S6 and going on to sponsor her education at the UCU Kampala campus in Mengo where she did business management (the bitter truth of the matter is that Charlotte comes from a poor background and had a deprived childhood).

Close friends add that earlier on, she had trained in ECD and nursery teaching, an engagement during which she made many male friends, which made her become rude to Jim once back home. The boyfriend made for her businesses including super markets and grocery shops in Kampala-but all of them collapsed because of her indolence and failure to manage them well.

So as of September last year, the boyfriend felt unsafe and uncomfortable after her endless harassment caused him to contract high blood pressure-and he filed for divorce at the Makindye magistrates court.

She got so angry with this divorce petition, which the boyfriend justified on grounds that their endless quarreling (which even friends, relatives and the Makindye LC1 officials had failed to stop) wasn’t good for the couple’s children. She was angry that the boyfriend had shared his concerns with relatives on both sides. She simply wanted to torment and mistreat him and he endures it all in silence.

Court was asked to determine whether any marriage between the two ever existed. He believes there was never any marriage between them because he only visited her parents once in Ntungamo and his view is that what existed between them was cohabitation and not marriage. Charlotte, who continues to forcefully live in the Makindye home as if she has nowhere else to move on to, insists there was/is a marriage between them and not just cohabitation.

Like all Kampala tik tok queens, she knows well that if there was never a marriage between them, she will be walking away with nothing. In case, the magistrate rules existence of a marriage between them, Charlotte (whose mistreatment of the boyfriend has angered many people) will still have to prove that she actually contributed to the man’s estate in order to be entitled to anything upon dissolution of the marriage.

The tik Toker, who could even struggle to buy food for herself and has had to use the children as a bait to continue being entitled to being housed, fed and generally sustained by the boyfriend, did actually make no contribution to the Makindye home or any of the things her estranged boyfriend owns. In her court filings, she has only claimed personally being around and occasionally supervising when the boys’ quarters to the Makindye house, were being constructed.

Last month, the boyfriend who has repeatedly reported to police about people threatening to kill him for standing in Charlotte’s way, informed the magistrate during mediation at the magistrate court that he was sick and tired of unending feuding with the mother of his children, who he accused to toxicating and suffocating his Makindye home.

He made it clear that even when there is no marriage to talk about and even when he is the one who has been wronged for all these years, he was ready to pay any price in order to get back his peace. He made it clear he was done with Charlotte who he swears he will never become interested in again, and all he wants is for her to totally quit so that he lives in peace-with only shared children upbringing remaining to be the only thing they can relate about. He badly wants to rebuild his life, which he says has badly been ruined because of emotional torture and mistreatment by Charlotte.

With support of the magistrate, he offered to take a loan from a bank and buy a mansion in any part of Kampala to enable Charlotte quit to go and live in it. The idea was that, in case of shared children custody, he doesn’t want his children to live in squalid conditions whenever it was Charlotte’s turn to live with them. Otherwise, he made it clear during mediation, he has no obligation whatsoever to do such a thing for his estranged cohabitee.

He also accepted to offer a top up of 70m besides the mansion so that Charlotte goes, leaves him along so that he begins on rebuilding his life which he says has greatly been ruined because of emotional torture and abusive treatment the mother of his children has subjected him to.

Charlotte, who relatives and friends believe is only interested in endless chaos and seeing the father of her children live under permanent stress, flatly rejected all this.

She insisted that all she is interested in is the Makindye house where she must continue living with the boyfriend, the very man her friends keep name-calling on tik tok while informing the whole world how he is such a terrible bad man who no woman can ever tolerate living with